Feminism

A Rude Intruder

its what do people say ‘ignorance’

sumtimes you cant figure out about your self, and what’s on your mind. just when people said that you are not good enough, let it be. no one deserve to be threat like an ashole.

kemaren, gwe nonton sendiri ‘the land of a woman’. its nice to watch the movie alone. i do enjoy it. i have more space for my brain to process the movie and the story it self.

His world in complete disorder after his break-up with a famous actress, Carter, a young soft-core porn writer, goes to suburban Detroit to care for his sickly Grandmother and heal his broken heart. Along the way he forms a special bond with the family that lives across from his Grandma, and changes the life of each woman. In the course of this, as is required in every film–and thus the world, he changes his own life as well.

the role was played by meg ryan (what more you could ask for?), adam brody (cute) and kristen stewart.

This movie was billed as a romantic comedy, but it’s really a drama, and it was so much better than I expected!

Redemptive and thought-provoking, this movie raises questions about if women and men can be friends without romantic undertones, and includes themes of forgiveness and living life fully.

Meg Ryan is always real and lovable, and Adam Brody is a great counterpart. It’s so great to see him as a leading man. I loved him in The O.C., but hopefully the bulk of his career is ahead of him. Scenes between him and the grandmother were hilarious. Very well directed. Definitely one to see with your friends and discuss over coffee afterwards–don’t take your parents.

the things that i always enjoy when i watch this kind of movie is..i love to see how people act and response every little things happen in life. and i can take a lesson from it. its fine to know that sumtimes you have a very bad times and decide to runaway for a moment, its ok to have a bad attitude when you feel no one threat you nicely (heeyy…you are not an angel who create only to do the good things anyway), its alright to take a time and reconstruct about who you are and what you’ve done. people do the same things. people made mistake.

its ok to ignore, its fine to deny and it has nuthin to do with people surrounding you with vituperation. its all in your mind.

woman, we have our own world and sumtimes we choose to fall into misery. its not that hard to be understood, but yeah..sumtimes we dont need it.

one more lesson from this movie is :

its nice to be the place for everyone, but sumtimes…you still need a space for your self, your own story

linda

Gothic flavor,
How I miss you.
If I only
Once could kiss you.

Make me happy
For one moment
Of my lifetime
I’d be there.

by : weezer

hehehe…secara gwe ya, punya lagu2 enak kadang ga nyadar, akhirnya pas ketemu…gwe repeat terus sampe khatam rhytim nya kalo perlu sampe tambourine nya juga gwe inget deh!!

tapi benernya gwe dah kenal ini band dari jaman putih-biru dulu. tapi baru ngeh album2nya pas putih-abu2. gara2 sering nongkrong sama neswal, herdin, gery, bone’, edo, martin dan cecunguk2 yang mengenalkan gwe pada dunia band

oh iya, btw tudey semua bos2 ditempat gwe ga adaaaaaaa!!! semua bacut ke bali karena ada acara kantor, dan tadinya gwe musti ikut tapi karena ujian..hehe next time aja dah.

so ini yang tinggal jaga lapak adalah kroco2, looks like a group of mouse who likes to dancing on the table..huahahah!!!

yippiieeyy!!…

mo nyalon mbl, nyalon diri, whatever pokoknya ngabur dari kantor!! yang rese2 sok ngelaporin, penjilat kelas teri…awas aja!!

cheers,

linda

innalillahi wa inna ilaihi rojiun …

telah berpulang ke rahmatullah, Ibunda kami tercinta, Ny. Siti Adrian binti Budiman Kartawijaya.

Pada hari sabtu / 19 Januari 2008, pkl 21.03 di rspi jakarta.

Atas nama keluarga besar Budiman Kartawijaya, mohon dimaafkan segala kesalahan dan kekurangan almarhumah semasa hidupnya. Mohon doa agar dimudahkan dan diterangkan jalan beliau. amin.

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untuk bunda tersayang..

segala kebaikan dan keteduhan hati mu kan senantiasa ada dalam hati kami. semua nasihat dan kasih sayangmu takkan lekang dimakan waktu.

bunda terkasih…

meski aku bukan bagian darahmu, namun sekian waktu mengenalmu dan bersama mu, mengisi hari2 ku dengan sosok bunda ku yang telah lama pergi. terima kasih bunda.

semoga sempat termaafkan segala khilaf dan sikap tak menyenangkan yang pernah ku perbuat selama ini. semoga sempat tersimpulkan senyum sederhana itu ketika terakhir kali mengingat diriku. semoga sempat terlafazkan ucapan doa mu saat terakhir kali aku mencium tangan dan kedua pipi mu.

selamat jalan bunda..

rindu ini kan selalu ada, dan doa kami semoga sepanjang kasihmu yang tak lekang dimakan zaman.

with love and regards,

linda

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to my dear friend…

ay..i know how it feels, ive been there before…

its hurt. but we have to let it go, life goes on..

just take your time, if you need a friend then you know where to call

get well soon.

linda

ugh!!

semalem tuw ya…kejadian yang bikin gwe trauma banget sama bajaj!! no more bajaj dah!! sebel banget gwe.

secara ya lampu merah perempatan arion itu najis gila pelitnya ma warna hijau..jadi lah gwe nyangsang di tengah2 kerumunan motor yang tetep aja rame meski dah jam nya orang istirahat (heran…bukannya pada dirumah, masih dijalan aja jam segitu). apalagi gara2nya selain bajaj buntet asal negaranya amitab bachan itu?

dah tau ijo, malah ngobrol aja gitu di tengah jalan…yang ada gwe dah ga mungkin berhenti secara mobil di belakang gwe dah tan-tin-tan-tin ga karuan!! tenyom!! akhirnya sukses deh gwe ngeloyor tanpa sempet ngerem dan berhenti nya karena dah keburu nubruk motor ajah!! arrrgghhh!!!

panik lah gwe!! say sorry setengah mampus sambil buka kaca, ngarep2 ga bakal jadi bahan makian dan dikeroyok gerombolan motor itu..huhuhuhuuuu…

dan alhamdulilah, tuw orang mau berbaik hati, gwe minta minggir biar diselesein (meski gwe juga ga kebayang bakal gimana nyeleseinnya) dia malah ngeloyor pergi..hikes. tapi tetep gwe denger ada yang maki gwe ‘gimana sie mbak, dah tau merah masih jalan aja..’ ihhh gwe masih sempet2nya ngasih penjelasan ‘gara2 bajaj….’ tapi arghhh sutralah nek!!

gwe bacut, pelan2, dan tiap ada bajaj gwe klakson aja dari jauh…bawel2 deh gwe, traumaaaa…..

dan gwe ga sempet lagi liat bumper kiri, baru tadi pagi..damn!! somplak aja gitu!! pantes tuw motor juga ngacir, secara rusaknya parahan gwe..tolooongg..!! bete gwe liat tuw mobil jadinya. ntar kamis gwe musti buru2 ke bengkel (again for the 2nd time on this month). duh…jangan ketemu bajaj lagi dulu deh gwe, bisa nyolot yang ada..tolong ya bajaj2, jangan ngobrol dan saling tuker pengalaman di lampu meraaahh!!! di pangkalan aja napa sie? (sorry to say, tapi emang gitu adanya, bajaj ngeselin!!). jadi inget dulu temen gwe pernah nendang bajaj dari motornya gara2 nyetirnya juga ngaco..secara kendaraan dewa!! dan oleng aja tuh bajaj beberapa saat…hmm…

today is the 1st exam, wish me luck

bos ga ada, jadi bisa bacut lebih cepet..hehe

linda

Billy idol (speaking):

good afternoon everyone. we’re flying at 26,000 feet,
Moving
Up to thirty thousand feet, and then we’ve got clear skies
All the way to las vegas, and right now we’re bringin you some in-flight
Entertainment. one of our first-class passengers would like to sing you a song
Inspired by one of our coach passenger, and since we let our first-class
Passengers do pretty much whatever they want, here he is.

Robbie hart (singing):
I wanna make you smile whenever you’re sad
Carry you around when your arthritis is bad
All I wanna do is grow old with you

I’ll get your medicine when your tummy aches
Build you a fire if the furnace breaks
Oh it could be so nice, growing old with you

I’ll miss you
I’ll kiss you
Give you my coat when you are cold

I’ll need you
I’ll feed you
Even let ya hold the remote control

So let me do the dishes in our kitchen sink
Put you to bed if you’ve had too much to drink
I could be the man who grows old with you
I wanna grow old with you

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hmm…i do..i do..i do..

linda

…….langsung tepar begitu kena bantal semalem, plg nonton sama anak2. Otomatis romantis…heheh secara gambling aja gt nontonnya, tercetus ide pas jam plg ktr, mendadak dan ya apa yg ada aja, asal jgn horor!!

nyaris ga ada yg bs gwe petik dari film ini, ya what did you expect from indonesian comedy movie, and the role was played by tukul, tora, tarzan (wait..wait..wait, what kind of name is that, 3 names started by the letter T? Coincident? Who cares?)

Cuma cerita ttg cewe karier yg diuber2 kawin dan akhirnya happy ending walau ga nendang (as usual, back to point 1, what did u expect from…)

ya trus kenapa? Ya ga ada….gwe cuma iseng aja nie ngeblog karena kebangun jam 2.21 dinihari tp susah tdr lagi, dan pas nyadar, ipod gwe msh asik aja nyanyi ndiri, dan ga tau kenapa ini kok ada musik gedombrengan di folder musik instrument ya? Hmmmm….kayanya gwe tahu nie siapa yg musti bertanggung jawab…hahah!!

dan gwe jg sukses membatalkan ke bali buat tgs ktr, ya apalagi selain final test yg menghadang dgn anggunnya? Plan naro mbl di bengkel buat repair baret yg terjadi akibat kaca mbl terlalu gelap dan mata silindris ini pun mentah…. Males bener nya gwe ngeliat tuh baret, cacat deh cacat!!

ya suw, wiken ini aslamat batal lg acara nyalon gwe, secara bos gwe dah ngasih job assignment yg cukup utk bekal wiken, smp hari minggu jg ada, lengkap bener d pokoknya hidup gwe (akhirnya terbantahkan jg itu prinsip gwe utk tdk menyentuh dan menghampiri ktr pada wkt wiken)

apa blh buat? Namanya jg kacung cung cung…sigh*

mode on : kriep2 siap tepar lg

linda

This saturday,
after ngantor sebentar dan akhirnya jadi juga nyalon bareng gemps…after muter2 ke salon martha tilaar di 2 tempat yg fully booked, dan akhirnya nyangkut ke earthliving spa rwmangun. wuiiihhh nikmat bgt rasanya, ngambil paket srikandi..massage, lulur, totok aura lengkap plus masker full body. Alhamdulilah enteng bgt badan gwe rasanya skrg, dan baliknya nemu warung nasi bebek (msh di rwmngn) yg…hmmm sluuurrppp…lumayan nendang, bebeknya empuk and sambelnya..mantotep!

akhirnya skrg gwe terkapar di kamar smbl nyalahin aromatherapy and make minyak esensial relaksasi yg tadi gwe beli di spa.

mencet2 remote, nemu andrea bocelli concert ‘vivere’ di metro tv. Hmmm…penyanyi yg satu ini, kagun berat sm kualitas suaranya. Semua lagu2 yg dia bawain terkesan syahdu dan tenang bgt. Subhanallah, Allah punya kuasa emang…dengan segala keterbatasannya, ada begitu banyak kehebatan yg cuma dia yg punya. Suara yg bening dan nafas yg panjang…good combination.

satu lagunya andrea yg masih bikin gwe penasaran krn belum dpt liriknya smp skrg ‘ESTATE’ judulnya. Meski blm ngerti artinya apa krn dibuat dlm bahasa spain…gwe rasa tuw lagu dalem bgt artinya, kaya penyesalan terdalam yg ga pernah bisa ketebus seumur hidup…hikes.

awal gwe kenal lagu2nya andrea, dr si ndut yg (tumben) mau beli cd originalnya…heheh judul albumnya gwe lupa, tp kalo ga salah ini album keluaran terakhir dan covernya as usual face sendu nya andrea.

…and most of all, andrea’s songs remind me to someone..

have a nice rest and great weekend

linda

Billy idol (speaking): good afternoon everyone. we’re flying at 26,000 feet,
Moving
Up to thirty thousand feet, and then we’ve got clear skies
All the way to las vegas, and right now we’re bringin you some in-flight
Entertainment. one of our first-class passengers would like to sing you a song
Inspired by one of our coach passenger, and since we let our first-class
Passengers do pretty much whatever they want, here he is.

Robbie hart (singing):
I wanna make you smile whenever you’re sad
Carry you around when your arthritis is bad
All I wanna do is grow old with you

I’ll get your medicine when your tummy aches
Build you a fire if the furnace breaks
Oh it could be so nice, growing old with you

I’ll miss you
I’ll kiss you
Give you my coat when you are cold

I’ll need you
I’ll feed you
Even let ya hold the remote control

So let me do the dishes in our kitchen sink
Put you to bed if you’ve had too much to drink
I could be the man (woman) who grows old with you
I wanna grow old with you

songs by adam sandler

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i do..i do..i do

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